Do you remember the last piece of clothing you bought? For me it ws this blue H&M dress on the left. I bought it during the last week of August and it was the final new clothing taste I have had since then. It has been 30 days.
On September 1st I went on a clothing diet. The goal is to go 365 days and buy any new clothes. The inspiration for the challenge is the "The Great American Apparel Diet" - a shopping sabbatical initiative that began in the U.S. in 2009. The "diet" kicked off its second year this September and I decided to follow along with my own attempt.
The rules of the apparel diet are as follows:
The things you can guzzle without guilt:
1. Clothes currently in your closet, on hooks, in your drawers or on your floor as long as they are not new.
2. Footwear
3. Accessories
4. Underwear—every girl should have a great pair of clean underwear on at all times.
Those items that are not allowed:
1. New clothes
“New” is anything that you pay for. An item is “not new,” if it something a person gives you (you cannot write a check to your husband or best friend and give them instructions or a wish list for your “must haves".)
A review of the Apparel Diet website reveals that women have as many reasons for quitting clothes shopping as they do for purchasing in the first place. Indulgence is like that I guess. For me the reason was twofold:
1. Financial. In the first half of 2010 I had spent over $1000 on clothes. When I lived in Australia - the purpose of which was to travel and explore - I still managed to flip my entrie wardrobe multiple times! For the last 10 years, my monthly average has been hovering around $200. Sometimes it is due to a couple of pricier purchases but most often it is the tally of WAY too many $30 grabs. Like snacking, my shopping can have an incremental effect and I was losing dollars the way one packs on calories from a series of poor choices.
2. Emotional. As much as I am an emotional eater, I am doubly an emotional shopper. Boredom. Happiness. Stress. Congratulatory. Lonely. Excited. Every emotion could be used as valid fuel for an apparel binge. Every event in life could be rationalized as a reason to buy something new. Through this process I have amassed piles of clothing over the years. I know that I have given more clothes away in the last year than many of my friends have purchased. And alot of what I have bought I did not need. Some of it I never wore. But the pure act of clothes shopping itself was enjoyable. This behaviour is, of course, the very essence of the shopaholic. I admit it. I need to find different outlets - not outlet malls! - for my feelings. So the best thing to do was remove the drug.
Which brings me to now. Thirty-days later. I have not cheated. The experience has made me re-evaluate the wardrobe I already possess. The stockpile of clothes crammed into my tiny closet has become its own department store. Yesterday I wore a jacket for the first time. A jacket I had bought in the spring of 2009! So onwards I go. Eleven months to go. I feel lighter already.
2 comments:
Great idea! I had a similar experience when I started working my gov job and had no "work" clothes. I used that as an excuse to get in the habit of shopping a lot (didn't help that our office building was connected to a huge mall!) I'd like to say I built up my wardrobe with wonderful things, but most of it was junky, or didn't go with anything I owned, or didn't fit right, or whatever. I think I was buying all the clothes because I still felt nervous about fitting in and being taken seriously at my job.
Anyway, I did a shopping fast like you're doing (though only for 3 months, so I am totally amazed that you're doing a year! Yay!) and got myself back on track and it's been much better since. And I can't believe how much money I had to spare when I stopped buying clothes all the time.
Wow. Good for you. Keep updating us on how it goes!
I'm the reverse and must force myself to shop more frequently so that I don't end up having to buy a bunch at once out of desperation and end up with clothes I don't really like.
For instance, had I visited H & M more frequently, I would have found that dress you're wearing in brilliant blue (yay!) instead of the one I bought in a mediocre peach . . and which I bought because I already had one in coral and was delighted to not have to try it on so I could get out more quickly.
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